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*I expect a man to do x, y, and z, for me if I am to go out with him* etc, etc.
If you FALL for this, you will LOSE all sexual attractiveness in her eyes. If you are thinking of telling a woman how good she makes you feel, tell her through the prism of dominance- in other words, show her in BED by making LOVE to her. THAT is the way for her to know you have *FEELINGS* for her. NOT from you kissing her butt and saying *I love you* after two days of knowing her. And then, if she turns out to be a *special* woman, who you think is worthy of a relationship, SET YOUR RELATIONSHIP STANDARDS AND MAKE THEM ABSOLUTELY CLEAR. |
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You can raise your standards in many ways, be it their looks, their specific characteristics, personality traits, etc. Personally, my highest standards go for personality, because every woman has the power to have a good personality and when gorgeous women see that their looks cannot hypnotize me they try harder to be fun people as well.
When you raise your standards, you become the SELECTOR, instead of the SELECTEE. And this stirs in a woman a whole lot of that thing called sexual desire. So be bold, and stop *hoping* to get a chance with a sexy woman. Instead, hope that SHE has a chance with YOU. Let this attitude show in your initial approach, by not kissing the ground she walks on. Have fun and tease her like you would a good buddy. Without telling her directly, let her know you've got standards too, just like she does. |
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Yes, guys not only TOLERATE this stuff from women, but and it WORKS on typical guys ALL THE TIME. The guy gets jealous and he starts going crazy for her, trying to impress her that he is the most awesome thing for her.
He MORE than just “falls” for it. Of course, in the process, the guy stops becoming a challenge by calling too much, by not seeing other girls, etc. He seems too easy, and the woman STOPS appreciating him and DUMPS him in one way or another. Or she starts disrespecting him and taking advantage of him. So the irony is that she really DID want him, but the guy fell SO HARD for her tactic, (which she used only because she in fact DID want him) that he ended up becoming NAUSEATINGLY easy and she just couldn’t help it but not appreciate him! |
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