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As if women were these meek, helpless creatures with superior morals and values who didn’t even POSSESS selfish traits.

The effect of all this has been that MEN today have been turned into ABSOLUTE PATHETICALLY EASY TARGETS FOR WOMEN TO USE FOR SHOOTING PRACTICE. Men feel guilty about being MEN. They feel because of their size and strength, they must kiss up to women and be extra careful not to accidentally hurt their feelings.

Meanwhile, most women have ZERO psychological issues with SHOOTING DOWN MEN at clubs etc, especially when these guys are nice. And laughing and making fun of him while the girls adjust their make up in the bar/club bathroom.

I observe this stuff at bars all the time. Sometimes when I see it happen, I just want to SHOUT OUT LOUD to all the guys, “STOP KISSING UP TO ALL THESE WOMEN! If not for yourself, then do it for the sake of all mankind!”

 
It doesn’t matter how you got to be single in your mid-thirties. What does matter, however, is that you have certain priorities in order so that you can protect yourself and those you date from getting hurt. There are too many reasons to list on why you’re on the market at this stage in your life, but you should be clear on your goals, both long and short-term. You don’t want to be led on or trapped into something you didn’t want in the first place.

And the list goes on and on...

Now, I realize that these statements are actually different from each other, and deal with different issues. But the common denominator in each of them is:
YOU'RE NOT BEHAVING IN A WAY THAT IS PUSHING HER ATTRACTION BUTTONS. IN MOST OF THESE CASES, YOU'RE GUILTY OF TRYING TO BORE HER INTO FEELING ATTRACTED TO YOU.

I got one letter recently where a guy was telling me that he had taken a girl out on a date, but that there wasn't any *spark*... but he still felt attracted to the girl. He seemed to think that just because nothing obvious was BAD about the date, that this girl should also feel attracted to him. (Maybe he thought that a few more uninteresting, boring dates would cause her to open her eyes and see the light).

Here are a few common problems that lead to *BORING DATE-ITIS*:
1. Playing it *safe*, following her lead, not saying anything you think will upset her, and making sure that you're *proper*.
2. Talking about BORING things like jobs, family, weather, etc. because it's *what people talk about to get to know each other.*
3. Being boring.
Watch out girls, there are a rash of new seduction books on the market for men offering tips and tricks on how to get a woman in bed without even dating her, let alone investing in a commitment as deep as a cup of coffee.

Now, as you all know, I'm quite the advocate for good old love and romance, so I think it's pretty important to be able to spot and neutralize these junior Romeos before they pounce.

Whether you want to cut these guys off before they ever make a move, or just send the signal that you're not an easy target, We've got the Man-tidote.

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