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My over all attitude is coming along, compared to how it use to be ( a recovering nice guy). However there are still a few things I'm having trouble with. The teasing and cockyness seems to be getting women's attention extremely well, but there are a lot of times where that's all I really say to them. I almost feel like I'm doing it too much. There has got to be some happy medium out there that I'm just not getting, or is this a normal feeling?
It also seems that this problem goes hand in hand with getting her emotionally involved (something that's a bigger problem than teasing too much, but I think are connected somehow). I haven't ever been able to get women to emotionally connect with me or with what I'm saying. |
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This is why being a “nice guy” is disastrous. Most attractive women simply do not appreciate “nice-ness” since WOMEN think that if you would be as superior as they are, you would then not be nice.
To them, nice is for people who are inferior. After all, THEY don’t have to be nice- and look how everyone kisses up to them and respects them. Get it? Attractive women just assume nice = loser. THIS BRINGS US TO LESSON #1: Since being “nice” (i.e. telling her she is sexy, buying her things, always being there when she asks, etc.) simply makes her feel you are inferior to her and that you need her, and this just confirms that she is superior and that it is therefore okay to ABUSE you…. |
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The only thing I want to add here is that if a woman FREQUENTLY does this, especially once you are already in a RELATIONSHIP, and if you are being THE MAN, (i.e. not being a jackass and not kissing up) then she is BAD NEWS. It's a sign of massive insecurity, or worse, sadism, and you should run away as fast as you can.
However, during the early phase when you are just getting to know a woman, it’s CRITICAL that a woman feels on a very deep gut level that NOTHING she can do will faze you or get you to jump through hoops. And if you want to learn how to develop the inner confidence and the specific skills to succeed with women in every situation- from pick up and getting physical, to relationships, then I seriously recommend you download and read my eBook, The Dating Wizard: Secrets to Success with Women. In my book, I explain not only WHAT works, but exactly WHY it works as well, which will give you greater confidence. The information in this book is not about useless stuff like what presents to buy a girl. It’s about how to create ATTRACTION and also how to prevent ever becoming a SUCKER. And it’s about doing all this INSTINCTIVELY. You could be reading it in MINUTES from now and start using the ideas TONIGHT. |
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