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#3: INTERNET PERSONALS SITES ARE NO LONGER STIGMATIZED
Another factor that is appealing to women about the internet is the fact that there is no longer a stigma to using it, even for women. Many of these sites have spent MILLIONS of dollars on shaping a woman-friendly image and marketing to women to help them feel that meeting someone through the net is trendy, hip and cool. SO HOW CAN GUYS TAKE ADVANTAGE OF THIS? What GUYS need to understand about meeting a woman online, is that the MEDIUM does not change the REALITY that women want guys who are COOL. They want THE MAN. Just like you can be THE MAN in person, you can also be THE MAN online. |
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Would you know it if your man was leading a double life?
Would the signs be obvious to you or to your family and friends? Most of the time we know when the top isn't spinning right in our relationships, but we don't want to know so we conveniently *overlook* the obvious when it comes to our men. Other times we're in the dark about their secretive tricks until something definitive happens and the light switch is thrown. Then suddenly everything is bathed in a painfully bright light. |
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So for example, let's say you are at the drugstore, and a gorgeous girl is grabbing some bag of candy off the shelf- VOILA- you can tease her on this in a million ways:
Here's an example: *Don't buy THAT!* Her: *hahaha-But these are so GOOD!* Then as you both head toward the counter with your purchase, you can tell her: *You better work out if you eat that* She replies: *Oh I don't work out. I exercise Enough from my job moving around* You can reply something like: *Oh you mean you MOW LAWNS?* She'll be like *hahaha…no I'm a Waitress/bartender/secretary/ whatever* By this time, you've got some good vibes flowing, you've shown you are not trying to win her approval, you've shown that you will be a challenge, you've shown confidence, you've made her laugh.... but it may still not be enough. you need to FUEL THE FLAMES here, with FURTHER mental stimulation- SEARCH THE SITUATION for the answer: VOILA: The magazine rack right by the counter- You know, National Enquirer, Cosmo, etc, etc. Pull off a copy of what inquiring minds need to know, and let's say there's a big splash page Of J-Lo and Ben Affleck and their soap opera. Take a look at it and mention out loud without hardly looking at her. *Do you think J-Lo is doing the right thing? Should she *stand by her man*? How about Ben? Do you think men should just be honest about having affairs or should they just be tactful?* Do all this in a playful non-serious way, and just WATCH the reaction you get. REMEMBER: A woman is looking to YOU to LEAD, it's just not going to be the woman starting to talk to you. In a café or restaurant, you can tease a woman on what she has ordered, you can make a playful comment about the lousy service, and of course in ANY situation you can comment on things she is doing, wearing, etc. |
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